$65.55
The Whole Family Pack
10 grief workbooks for a family after the loss of a child. 366 pages. Buy them together and save 30%.
Part of the I Am Grieving, Now What? series.
When a child dies, everyone in the family loses someone different: a son or daughter, a brother or sister, a grandchild. Each of you will grieve in your own way and on your own time. This pack gives every person in your family their own book, written for who they are and how old they are, plus a Start Here guide and two books to use together.
A gentle introduction before every worksheet. Each page opens with a few soft lines on why it matters and how it can help, grounded in respected grief research and child-grief guidance, and ends with one calming breath. A personal note from me is on page 2 of every book.
WHO IT'S FOR (10 BOOKS, 366 PAGES)
• Mom: Mothers Edition, Complete (124 pages, all three parts)
• Dad: Fathers Edition (45 pages)
• Mom and Dad, the first weeks: The First 30 Days (17 pages)
• Grandparents: Grandparents Edition (44 pages)
• Adult brothers and sisters: Adult Siblings Edition (44 pages)
• Teens 13-17: Unsaid (15 pages, with pages for the parent and private pages for the teen)
• Kids 7-12: Heart to Heart (15 pages, with pages for the parent and pages for the child)
• Little ones 3-6: Little Hearts (18 pages, mostly for the grown-up)
• The whole family, together: Grieving Together as a Family (18 pages, the Start Here guide)
• Thanksgiving to New Year's and every hard date: Our First Holidays Without You (26 pages)
Every book ends with "Find your circle" (how to join The Ugly Cry Club, a grief group for those who have loved and lost) and a thank-you page with a 25% off code, a link to my shop and an invitation to ask for custom gifts.
THE VALUE
Bought one by one, these 10 books cost $94.50. Together they are $65.55. You save $28.95 (30%).
WHAT YOU'LL RECEIVE
5 ZIP files. Every book comes in 2 versions, US Letter (8.5 x 11 in):
• Fillable: type right into the pages on a computer or tablet, or print in full color
• Printer-friendly: white background, saves ink
ZIP 1: Mothers Edition, fillable · ZIP 2: Mothers Edition, printer-friendly · ZIP 3: Fathers + Adult Siblings · ZIP 4: Grandparents + Little Hearts + Unsaid · ZIP 5: Heart to Heart + The First 30 Days + Grieving Together + Our First Holidays.
Each ZIP includes a Start Here page with a map of which book is for whom.
Need A4? The US Letter files print well on A4 with "Fit to page". If you'd like true A4 files, message me after you buy and I'll send them.
HOW IT WORKS
• This is a digital download. Nothing will be shipped to you.
• After checkout, find your files under You > Purchases and Reviews > Download Files on Etsy, and in your Etsy confirmation email. Download all 5 ZIPs, on Wi-Fi if you can.
• Open a ZIP: on iPhone or iPad, tap it in the Files app; on Android, tap it in Files and choose Extract; on a Mac, double-click; on Windows, right-click and choose Extract All.
• Fillable fields work best in the free Adobe Acrobat Reader. Some rating circles may let you pick more than one answer.
• Print a page or a whole book as many times as your family needs, or write on the pages on a tablet with an app like GoodNotes or Notability.
A GENTLE GIFT
If a family you love has lost a child, this is one gift that holds everyone: the parents, the brothers and sisters, the grandparents. It asks nothing of them and waits until they are ready.
A NOTE FROM ME
Hi, I'm Niki. I made these pages after losing my daughter, Harper. I'm not a therapist. I'm a mom with a grieving family who has walked this road, read everything I could find, and leads The Ugly Cry Club, a group for grief and loss. I'm also a certified grief educator. Every page is written the way I wish someone had spoken to us: gently, honestly, and without a timeline.
Real tears. Real love.
Harper's Heart Press
PLEASE NOTE
• These books are a gentle companion. They are not therapy and are not a substitute for care from a licensed professional. If you or anyone in your family is in crisis or thinking about ending their life, please call or text 988 (U.S.) or your local emergency number.
• For personal use within your own family. Please don't share, resell or redistribute the files. Grief group leaders, counselors, schools and organizations, please message me about group licensing.
• Because this is a digital file, returns and exchanges aren't accepted. If anything is wrong with your download, message me and I'll make it right.
• Colors may look slightly different depending on your screen and printer.
Your files will be available to download once payment is confirmed.
But please contact me if you have problems with your order
Privacy Policy – Harper's Heart Press
Harper's Heart Press is a small shop run by one mom. Most of my customers are grieving, and I take the trust you place in me seriously. This policy explains what information I receive when you buy from my shop, how I use it, and how I protect it.
Information I collect
When you buy from my shop, Etsy shares some of your information with me so I can complete your order:
Your name and Etsy username
Your email address
Your billing or shipping address (Etsy collects this at checkout even for digital items)
Your order details, like what you bought and when
Any messages you send me through Etsy
I never see or store your payment card details. Etsy handles all payments.
What I never see
My workbooks are digital downloads that you print or fill in privately. I don't see, collect, or store anything you write in them. Your words, memories and reflections belong only to you.
How I use your information
I use your information only to:
Deliver your digital files and help with any download problems
Answer your questions and messages
Keep the business records required for taxes and accounting
Comply with the law and with Etsy's policies
I don't sell, rent, or trade your personal information. I won't add you to an email list or send you marketing unless you choose to sign up.
Who I share it with
I share your information only when I have to, and only with:
Etsy, which runs the marketplace and processes payments (see Etsy's Privacy Policy at etsy.com/legal/privacy)
Tax and accounting services, and only as needed for my business records
Legal authorities, if the law requires it
If you share your story with me
Many of you tell me about your loss in messages, and I'm honored when you do. Anything you share about your child or your grief is kept completely private. I will never share it, quote it, or use it in my marketing without your clear, written permission.
How long I keep it
I keep order information for as long as I need it to provide support and meet tax and legal requirements, which is generally up to seven years. After that, I delete it.
Your rights
Depending on where you live, you may have the right to:
Ask what personal information I hold about you
Ask me to correct or delete it
Object to or limit how I use it
Receive a copy of your information
This includes rights under laws like the GDPR (EU/UK) and U.S. state privacy laws such as the CCPA. To make a request, message me through Etsy and I'll reply as soon as I can. Some information may need to be kept for legal or tax reasons, and some requests (like closing your account) are handled directly by Etsy.
How I protect it
I keep your information secure and limit access to myself. I don't keep copies of order information outside of Etsy except where tax records require it.
Contact
If you have a question about your privacy, please send me a message through Etsy.
Harper's Heart Press · Idaho, USA
Yes! We can customize most items for you. Whether it is the names or something else, just ask and we will let you know. We can also make some ideas based off your ideas. Let us know. We are all in this togther.